5 Signs that you’re Probably not getting a Second Date
5 Obvious Signs There Will Be No Second Date
When you’re out playing the field, you might just notice that you never get kissed at the end of the first date. You can’t pin your hope on the second date, because you’ve never had one. You’re going to have to date a little more cleverly. Here are a few signs that you are not getting a second date.Signs you’re not getting a second date
Guys: your ‘date’ consists entirely of you playing video games
Whoever said that women love to watch guys play video games was a little off the mark. When your first date is made up of you doing things that only you enjoy, you don’t give much of a great first impression. Hell, even going to an action movie is better than this.
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Girls: you ask him when he wants the wedding to be
Commitment is a huge thing, of course. And at some stage, you’re going to have to, as a couple, talk through your expectations of your relationship, which is not only normal, but also highly recommended for a healthy, trustful relationship. However, the time is not the very first date. Even when you try to casually drop the ‘W’ word on your first date, you’re going to come across as the kind of girl who demands to check his messages every day to make sure that he isn’t cheating (he isn’t). Ease off and let it all be.(1)
Both: you talk about yourself a LOT
When you see her yawning, checking the time, or even straight up telling you to shut up…it’s probably time to shut up. As a rule of thumb, ask her twice as many questions as she asks you. Dates are ways that you can find out about people, so try to show some interest in her, rather than show off how great you are…because chances are, you aren’t.
Both: you mention weird hobbies
Openness is a sign of a great relationship. You can talk to your partner about absolutely everything, and they really do feel like your best friend. That’s great, but if you do have some strange hobbies, it’s probably time to stop them. This isn’t to say that you have to completely change yourself – just that, if someone were to walk in on you, imagine what they would be thinking. If it’s along the lines of, ‘Oh, that’s a little odd’, then you’re probably safe. If, however, it’s, ‘Literally, what am I seeing?’, then that’s a safe bet that what you’re doing is objectively creepy. It’s hard to change, but if the change involves actually throwing out your nail clippings rather than sorting them out, then change is probably a good thing.(2)
Both: you mention disturbing things about your body
No. Just no.
About the Guest Author:
Joe Bedet has had some pretty miserable experiences on the dating scene, but his luck has turned around recently. He lives with his girlfriend in Horsley.
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