3 Reasons Men Leave Women They Love
Your guy just told you that he’s not happy anymore and wants to end things. You’re DEVASTATED. What went wrong? Why does he doubt your future together? Let’s face it, every relationship has “problems.” But when you create ATTRACTION and a deep emotional connection, any problems you experience won’t ruin everything. They’ll be small “bumps” in the road.
If a man is feeling intensely attracted to you… than almost nothing else matters. He’ll be open to working things out no matter what.
On the other hand…there are a few reasons why a man will leave, even if he cares for a woman:
Small “Freak-Outs” Signal Future MELTDOWNS
The way a woman handles minor troubles in a relationship indicates to a man how she will be able to handle things when they really get tough. If you fall apart when he is late for a date, or you can’t get yourself together after a disagreement (even when the man tries to explain and comfort you), then he isn’t going to believe things can get any better in the FUTURE.
To make a long story short, act this way and a man will worry that you aren’t the kind of EMOTIONALLY MATURE woman he needs who can handle the real stresses in life. A man doesn’t want to “tie himself” to a woman who is constantly having emotional meltdowns.
Loss Of Attraction
Even if a man “loves you,” if he doesn’t feel that deep level of ATTRACTION for you…then your relationship will feel like a lot of “work” to him. And eventually he will prefer not doing all this “work”.
It’s critical to know that attraction goes much deeper than the physical connection you share. It also has to do with how you make a man FEEL when he’s around you. When you’re interesting, unpredictable and adventurous, he can’t help but stay emotionally engaged with you. But lots of women loose the confidence they had in the beginning by trying to “fix” things with a lot of talk. And this is how so many women unknowingly KILL that attraction that got things started in the first place.
Not Having A Life Outside Your Relationship
Do you often “blow off” your friends when you’re seeing a man? When was the last time you did something fun by YOURSELF? A man wants to be with a woman that brings something better to his life, not take away his TIME and ENERGY. A woman who focuses all her attention on the relationship as her one source of happiness “screams” NEEDINESS to a man.
By the way… men usually leave relationships because they no longer feel that gut-level ATTRACTION for a woman. Not because they aren’t “in love” anymore.
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