Going After Your Dream Girl? Three Steps to Mastering your Self Confidence

June 6, 2023 By archelys3 0

how to find the woman of your dreams? Mastering your Self Confidence

One of the most stated tips for picking up women is confidence, and for good reason too. Confidence can often mask and overpower many imperfections in a guy, physical or otherwise. It is no secret that women feel like they need a man who is sure of himself. The truth is, in the dating game, a lot of “value” men and women place on each other are not actual tangible things, but rather perceived. Therefore if a guy acts like he is sure of himself and that he is worth something then a lot of the time that’s all it takes for women to believe he’s desirable.

**Going After Your Dream Girl? Three Steps to Mastering your Self Confidence**

Perception and the difference between confidence and lack of it is why a man who is always chasing a woman loses value in her eyes, while a guy who pokes fun at her and maybe ignores her a little will actually garner more interest. It’s all about perceived value, and mastering your self-confidence is one of the best ways to up your stock in the eyes of the opposite sex. Let’s take a look at how(1).

Look Good, Feel Good

Yes, it’s an overused phrase, but oftentimes certain phrases are overused because they have some truth to them. One of the best ways of feeling confident about yourself is to look like someone who would be confident about themselves. Now you don’t need to go and book a plastic surgery appointment to look like Brad Pitt, but there are things you can easily do to improve your image. Stay on top of your hygiene for one. Let’s face it; guys don’t have it nearly as tough as girls when it comes to looking sharp. Girls have to spend hours doing their makeup, hair, and all that other jazz, while if you’re a guy and you took a shower, shaved, and brushed your teeth today, you’re already ahead of most other guys in the queue.

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Maintain a basic hygienic routine, get a decent haircut, hit the gym a few times a week, and you’ll have a body image that you can be confident of.

Get Used to Talking to People

Of course, confidence requires much more than the way you look. It involves putting forward that confidence when you interact with people, and nothing beats mastering the nuances and body language of a confident person than talking to others, male or female. There are guys who do nothing but read books on dating advice and discuss various strategies about talking to women, but when it actually comes time to talk to a woman in the flesh, they freeze and have no idea what they’re doing. It’s always good to know the theory behind what you’re striving for when you approach a woman, but nothing beats having real conversations(2).

Have Something to Be Confident About

Although it was mentioned earlier that in dating, a lot of value is perceived rather than real, it would still be much easier to exude confidence if you have something real to back it up. For example, it would be much harder for a guy to all of a sudden act confident in a “pickup” setting, if in his normal life, he ducks his landlord because he was recently laid off from his job for being always late and lazy. It is much easier for a person who has control of his life to act confident.

Setting a goal and accomplishing it can also do much to add to your self-assuredness. Nothing gives you more self-confidence than knowing you can make a promise to yourself and follow up on it, because while other things can change, your integrity is something you can always be in control of. Knowing that can be very empowering, and the confidence you get from it will show when you talk to women.

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